off the wagon
At the end of the day, we can endure much more than we think we can.
Frida Kahlo (via cierrafrances)

This job is reeeeeealy testing my limits…

If love did not exist
I would be so goddamn sane.
Andrea Gibson, Staircase (via larmoyante)
You deserve someone who loves you with every single beat of his heart, someone who thinks about you constantly, someone who spends every minute of every day just wondering what you’re doing, where you are, who you’re with, and if you’re OK. You need someone who can help you reach your dreams and protect you from your fears. You need someone who will treat you with respect, love every part of you, especially your flaws. You should be with someone who could make you happy, really happy, dancing on air happy.
Love, Rosie, Cecilia Ahern (via sheishisbabybird)

For everyone.

That’s the problem with putting others first; you’ve taught them you come second.
read that, again.  (via fridaynights-citylights)
Sundays. And Mondays. And Tuesdays, Wednesdays and Thursdays. Also Fridays and Saturdays.

Sundays. And Mondays. And Tuesdays, Wednesdays and Thursdays. Also Fridays and Saturdays.

I’ve never seen any life transformation that didn’t begin with the person in question finally getting tired of their own bullshit.
Elizabeth Gilbert (via jessicachu)


Mo’ problems

Blindsided by my office closing down and all of us losing our jobs unless we want to move 90 mins north

Got in a fight with the boy about an ex, social media, and keeping that channel “open” to which I still think if it bothers the other and that person doesn’t mean anything, remove them.

I ate all the ramen in the house


take no shit 2014

because sometimes you need some trivial hilarity to make your day just a smidgen brighter. 

“Sometimes when fate seems to be making mischief, it’s not. You’re just a girl that a guy with a girlfriend finds attractive. Or he’s just a punk and you’re just the only one who sees it. And you’re fine as you are, and he’s fine without you there. All you can do is take care of yourself. Not every asshole is a great guy waiting for the right girl to show him the way. Not every star-crossed love is meant to be a lover. And not every good intention is worth a fourth chance. Everything starts to shimmer when you’re dying of thirst. It’s not about reformation, bad timing, or lost numbers - this is about knowing what’s good for you and what’s not. This is about being more complicated than a Kate Hudson script. Your time is worthwhile, and predictable stories with cliche characters aren’t. Focus on you, because the more depth you give the main character, the better the story gets.

You’re not a TV show.  You don’t need to tie up every loose end with a proper conclusion.  This is life.  People don’t bow and say, “The End.”  They come and they go and they come out of the wash cycle with stains and crumpled dollar bills….Maybe. Or maybe not. And it’s because of that ‘maybe not’ that I spend my days on maybe’s I have the ability to make into probably’s.  You’re writing your story, so have the courage to keep searching for the right cast, or suffer from endless sequels with a main character you never even liked.”

(Source: datebynumbers)

i need this shirt.

i need this shirt.

If you’re under 30 and in a relationship right now, and you’re not head over heels, get out. You are way too young to be wasting your time with someone who doesn’t make you really happy to be with them every day. There’s nothing sadder than watching 23-year-olds settle.

Carolyn Hall, 17 Thoughts for Single Women From A Divorcee (via silhouettesofspilledink)

This should be amended to say "If you’re any age and in a relationship right now…”